" is a physical and emotional relationship between two people who may have a sexual relationship or a near-sexual relationship without necessarily demanding or expecting the extra commitments of a more formal romantic relationship"
There are many reasons for wanting a casual relationship versus a long term relationship. Some reasons could be:
- That you are not ready to settle down into a relationship
- Your lifestyle is not conducive to a long term relationship, you may travel a lot or may be away from your home for long periods of time because of work
- Or you just do not want a long term relationship but just want fun!
Here are some tips for casual dating:
- Be Honest - let your date know where you stand and what you are ready to offer. Every relationship, casual or not has to start of on the right foot!
- Have Fun - a lot of times when two people are trying to form a long term relationship, mental limitations seem to come in, in a casual date there is less pressure so have fun!
- There is no requirement to meet regularly, as they say "absence makes the heart grow fonder" or maybe the fun more fun - who knows!
- If things start getting too serious for you - then close the relationship down, before your casual partner gets too emotionally involved and lessen the "hurt".
- If things are not working out then be kind and get out (nicely), leading people along is mean!
But be aware just because a relationship starts of being casual it does not mean that it cannot turn into a more long term and/or permanent "date". Have fun!
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